truth

The issue about truth is entirely relative. It varies from person to person and each individual decides what he considers truth depending on the audience they are addressing. Life has various ways of showing us certain things and am just beginning to appreciate that (hope its not too late).
When you get to a place and everybody around you seems to be complaining about this and that; so and so, the remedy is take your time and just listen/watch what is happening until you will be able to get your own deductions about the the place and the people around you!

I strongly recommend that you don't trust anybody even the person who is trying to get the closest to you just yet. In fact I'd rather you trust those who are much distant from you because the only reason they may be keeping their distance is because they do not want to tell you lies...

Their counterparts on the other hand may be out to get you in trouble (watu na viatu).

The gist of the matter is;

If I have to tell three people the truth about a situation, my answer may or may be different to the parties. The truth is always hard to concede either by the party telling or the one being told. Sometimes people horde the truth and this is mostly if it is to their benefit. So before you decide to horde the truth in FAVOUR of a LIE, think twice and do to others what you would want them to do to you...